girlfriend?

[kronick]

lol...one boob!


anywho....the hard part to all that is "not being nervious"...easier said than done! im just a big ol'pussy when girls i like start talking to me. im too shy to talk to them, so if i ever talk to them....they start talking to me first. ya ya i kno i have to change that...but i cant, the whole "not like being rejected" is wired into my head pretty damn good. like apple in pie.....mmmm....pie

[robert42]

yea dnt be shy theres nothin a shotgun can't fix muahahahahaha

[maryjanemama]

1. Talk to her. Try to put your nervousness aside and start with, "Hi, I'm...." Tell her you noticed her and wanted to introduce yourself. She won't think you're weird, she'll find it very weird if you just stare at her and don't say anything. Never have a friend talk to her for you, that makes her automatically think your spineless.

2. Go with what you know. Be yourself, do not try to act the way you think she wants you to.

3. Show confidence, but don't be cocky. If you are funny, go with it, comedy will get you everywhere. If you normally aren't a naturally comedic person, now is NOT the time to try to become one. Say something else instead, compliment her, that's always nice.

4. I think a great place to meet a girl would be a music store. Most ppl will always have something to say about their favorite music and that's a good way to get the conversation rolling. Plus, you can check and see what's she's into before you say anyting. If she's holding a Britney Spears (or anything else as equally cheesy) cd, keep walking, you'll be better off.

5. No chick wants to hear, "Nice ass." from a stranger, even strippers.

6. Most girls are no cooler than you. Talk to her. She's most likely just as full of doubt about herself as you are.

[maryjanemama]

From a female point of veiw, I'm concerned about all of the "Ignore her or send mixed signals" advice I'm seeing. This IS NOT a good idea. This is how game playing gets started. If you want a real relationship, act like an adult and start a conversation with the girl. Don't play unless you want to attract immature girls.

[kronick]

well either way....i still couldnt do it. im hopeless...but i dont care.

[caddyman]

My avice would be , have a nice big joint and dont even talk to her , bend her over and give her a good seeing to, im sure she would really appreciate that

[sawleaf]

From a female point of veiw, I'm concerned about all of the "Ignore her or send mixed signals" advice I'm seeing. This IS NOT a good idea. This is how game playing gets started. If you want a real relationship, act like an adult and start a conversation with the girl. Don't play unless you want to attract immature girls.

A lot of people are giving that advice because it works MJ. Hot women are used to getting a lot of attention from men, the guys that don't give them much attention intrigue them. They are left wondering why this guy doesn't sweat them, and they take that bait all the time! I know women are not all the same, but this technique does work like a charm most of the time as long as you are not a jerk. There are too many women out there for a guy to get all distressed over a single one.

[maryjanemama]

You're right, Saw, not everything works 100% of the time. I just think that a new guy to dating should start with the basics like talking instead of trying to be sly. I can see a newbie trying to play and end up looking like an idiot when a simple hi may have worked out better.


Personally, I think caddyman's advice is THE BEST EVER! Lol

[sawleaf]

You're right, Saw, not everything works 100% of the time. I just think that a new guy to dating should start with the basics like talking instead of trying to be sly. I can see a newbie trying to play and end up looking like an idiot when a simple hi may have worked out better.


Personally, I think caddyman's advice is THE BEST EVER! Lol

Yeah true. Play it straight until you see what works and what doesn't. Then turn on the game.

[teknodppr]

Hey i was wondering how old you guys are. I mean there are a lot of age differences on this board and certain advice we give might not be good for all ages. I talk about teasing girls and playing games because most younger girls are about it. Im 20 so a lot of girls i talk to ive noticed like to play games. So I say do it back. kronick how old are you? i have been shy pretty much my whole life. i was scared to talk to girls and i never knew why. i even had this really pretty cheerleader my senior year that liked me. i could tell by the small hints she sent me but everytime i had the opportunity to talk to her, i was too shy to do it. i started getting less shy when i was about 18. now im still kinda shy, but i can talk to hot girls and not be too nervous at all. one thing you should know is that everyone can get a little nervous when it comes to talking to girls whether or not they admit it. just think about how insignificant your problem of talking to a girl is compared to worlds problems or other peoples' problems. your one in millions of people in the same situation. being shy is just something that people grow out of.