girlfriend?

[teknodppr]

ok. you cant believe anything girls tell you. i have been talkin to this girl for like he past 5 months. she told me she doesnt have a bf. although she does and didnt admit it. she was pretty much just being a tease this whole time. she was damn hot too. i was like in love with her for a while until i found out she was lying to me. then i was kinda hurt, but then again she wasnt even my gf. i work with her so i still see her but things are different between us because i pretty much called her out on all of her manipulation and she was totally silent for the rest of the time i was working with her yesterday. its fucked up. girls will manipulate you! what you have to do is show them you won't put up with their shit and let them know. example would be this: this is what i said to this girl - "do you even wanna hangout? cause if you dont, just tell me.........its better than trying to play it off like ur always busy". she didnt know what the fuck to do. she paused like i had short circuted her thinking. see she probably hasnt really had hardly anyone call her out on her shit. she is just thinking "im so cute" and i can get away with whatever. girls get attracted to guys who are in control. calling her out is just saying that your games are not going to work with me and im above that shit. its different and girls like it. even small hints will work cause girls take hints very well. its just the way their brain is wired compared to us guys. most guys would just be like fuck her and not say anything. but anyway that's just an example. if your different in a good way, then girls will notice and be attracted to what is different. good luck man.

[kronick]

im different in a good way...and i dont see any ladys jumping all over me...im always the "nice cute guy whos a really good friend :D" well i say fuck that shit! im soo annoyed by that and so god damn tired of it too!....anyone have any suggestions?

[teknodppr]

im different in a good way...and i dont see any ladys jumping all over me...im always the "nice cute guy whos a really good friend " well i say fuck that shit! im soo annoyed by that and so god damn tired of it too!....anyone have any suggestions?

i used to be that same way. you gotta change the way you talk to girls. think of talking to them as a game. try to get them to laugh. when you do, its like somethin sorta clicks on in their head and gives them a good feeling. see if you are always nice to girls, they will see you as kind of a wussy. you gotta make fun of them and tease them. if you find something they are insecure about, make fun of it. it will make you look more "challenging" in their eyes. try and not smile all the time. it creates drama which girls like. but yeah, a lot of girls dont like guys that are nice because the chances are that guys have been nice to them their whole life and do things for them. so if you do that, your just another guy to her. so id say that being funny is the most powerful trait you can have when it comes to attracting girls. if she asks you a question, give her a stupid answer sarcasticlly. dont let her know too much about you. like when you talk dont talk much about your life. it gives a sorta mysterious feeling to it that makes girls curious. ok well im done rambling on about stuff. i recommend reading the book double your dating. its damn imformative about this subject. it makes you feel like you can talk to any girl because you are on top of things now. hope some of this helped.

[Kid Dynamite]

"nice cute guy whos a really good friend "

tell me about it.

[kronick]

teknodppr...thanks for the help. no ones explained it to me that way b4. it seems like the way you explained it would work...hopefuly...maybe its just me tho...oh well, ill try it today

[ghostman420]

damn teknodppr!!! you got pretty goo game!! ill give you that homie!!

[ghostman420]

but tek... and for reminissions and kronic too...it matters what kind of girl you are hittin on and tryin to get. see...if you are with an easy...out going girl...you can joke around and play around and shit. its cool. they love that. but...if you are with a more serious girl, or shy girl, its totally different. still joke around and have fun... but not too much...cuz shy girls like a sweet guy. soo...in conclusion...easy, loud, out going girls like a funny guy that jokes around and has fun and so on. and a shy girl likes a guy that makes them feel comfortable. really...just be smooth. dont worry bout it...just basically say to yourself, "im cool and i know it". lol. it will give you confidence. never be nervous around a girl. well...thats all i can think of now...peace out homies and good luck with the ladies!!

[teknodppr]

But then again its not always like that. Theres this one girl i know that is pretty damn hot with a nice body. She is shy and isn't too out going. But i started flirting with her, and she is a big damn tease now. But yeah i know what you are saying. Its like that a lot of times.


If ive learned anything about girls in the past few years, its that you have to be patient with them. Dont talk directly. Like if you went up to a girl you like and told her she was pretty, it wouldnt mean as much as if you would have said something like "You know you like me". its pretty much impossible for us to understand why girls like these things so much more than we do. just the way their brain is designed. A good thing to remember is whenever you are hanging out with a certain girl you like and are hinting to her you like her. When you are done hanging out, try and make her think "Does he like me, or not?" Just send her mixed signals. Try and learn some body language also. There are books on it. They did a test where girls could determine what was going on in a situation just by looking at their body language. They could get about 60% right most of the time. Girls are very intune to body language. So hold your shoulders back and stand up tall. They will notice. Just have confidence with them. If you go up to a hot girl and talk to her without being nervous (just drink some beers first), then she will automatically tune in to that and automatically feel something different about you because the chances are that there are lots of guys always talking to her, but most of them are shy and nervous. so when you arent nervous, then you become different.

[ghostman420]

exactly!!! well put homie!!! dont be shy!!! be smooth..be cool..and listen to me and tek!!! lol!!!

[MiNdYoU]

yea, there was this girl w/ a nice boob once, uno