Quote Originally Posted by MadSativa
Everytime I make a big deal somethin comes up and the date sucks.........usualy so I dont do all that anymore..........but I still know how to cook and that is good enough for me
Excellent point, my friend!

Good first dates, are coffee, lunch, ice cream something really casual during the day. Sometimes it's better just to hang out, and not make it feel like a date. Always have plans for that night, too, even if you are just going to a friend's house. That way you won't be sitting at home alone thinking, "Should I call her?" If you do, that will fuck it up, and you will look needy.

Don't waste time or money doing something special for a girl, until she proves to you she is worth it. A romantic dinner at home is better for a girlfriend you have been with for awhile. If you have the attitude of, "I like her, but she has to prove herself to me she is worth it," she will try and do it.

Also, don't ask girls to be your girlfriend. ever. Let them bring it up. Don't even tell them if you are dating other girls or not unless they ask.