friends with benefits: ideal human relationship?

[djaio]

i think this is where the human race is going, sex-wise. think about it:

friendship is arguably the best kind of relationship. unlike parents, siblings, lovers and offspring, friendship can easily last your entire life. no matter what age you are - child, adult, elder - you always have friends. in friendship you have love but without attachment, dependency or commitment. it's free.

and what's the best thing you can do with a friend of the opposite sex? have sex, of course. i don't need to explain why sex is so great.

so, friend + sex = near-perfect relationship. that is, if everyone did it. right now, the clashing majority of traditional pair-bonding and the minority of friends with benefits sparks jealousy and confusion. yes, there is the problem of STDs, but personally, I believe that STDs are a result of all the negativity we now associate with sex. i think casual sex would promote a much healthier societal attitude on sex, thus making sex itself healthier.

it's simply another stage in human sexuality. our ancestors had the animalistic "fuck any stranger you see" approach until we developed pair-bonding. and until recently, the concept of sexually-active friends was pretty much unknown. every "friend-with-benefits" i've spoken to agrees that it's much more enjoyable than a committed relationship.

and that's my rant. destruct or support it as you wish.

djaio Reviewed by djaio on 01-30-2005. friends with benefits: ideal human relationship? i think this is where the human race is going, sex-wise. think about it: friendship is arguably the best kind of relationship. unlike parents, siblings, lovers and offspring, friendship can easily last your entire life. no matter what age you are - child, adult, elder - you always have friends. in friendship you have love but without attachment, dependency or commitment. it's free. and what's the best thing you can do with a friend of the opposite sex? have sex, of course. i don't need to Rating: 5

[Not Enough Herb]

I SUPPORT U 150%

friends with privelegges or benefits is a lot better then a relationship. no stress, no heart ache. just sex.



later

[kyle]

yah dude i figured that out a long time ago and tried it out a few times, so have fun and fuck ur friends

[F L E S H]

I agree!!

Now if only I could find a girl who thinks the same way... And if only I could explain it to my girlfriend...

[Dreadmantic]

Nah, friends with benefits is cheap. Find love...it's out there, I promise. I can have sex with a stranger and never see them again, but I cannot have sex with a friend and still be just a friend the next day. I either sit there and feel wronged that we're not moving on the next step or I feel shy like we shouldn't have done it in the first place. Too complicated.

[Ammie]

Nah, friends with benefits is cheap. Find love...it's out there, I promise. I can have sex with a stranger and never see them again, but I cannot have sex with a friend and still be just a friend the next day. I either sit there and feel wronged that we're not moving on the next step or I feel shy like we shouldn't have done it in the first place. Too complicated.

totally agree. Altho I, myself dont want anything to do with love or relationships atm

[FrenchInhale]

Friends with benefits does not work... I have done it... and all it does is make the girl hate you after it is done... That is what is so awesome about marriage... it is suppose to be your best friend... but also your life partner... however people now adays seem to like to marry to early... or not know a person before they marry them.. hence all the divorces...

[GooseBear]

I have seen it happen many times..........
one or the other gets to involved at some point and it blows up in their faces

no good
used to think it good
but no good, hence (blew up in my face)

[Hektik]

Yeah i used to be like that, but i also beleave that there is a one and only for everyone, i never thought i would fine that person but i have. and wouldn't trade her in for all the pussy in the world (ok i might be lying there )

[maryjanemama]

Tough call...both ppl have to be in the same place, so to speak. Feelings sometimes get in the way. But I think if it's just once or twice it can stay just for fun. But if it becomes a regular thing, then it becomes a relationship all on it's own and who wants a good time to become a relationship?