GF wants to break up cuz i smoke.

[Cyceiro]

Fuck her.
If you 2 have only been together for a little over a month and she is already giving you a choice between her and something you have been doing since before you met her, then it really sounds to me like she is just trying to think of some reason to break up with you.
Or to only break up with you for a month or so until you can pass a drug test while she dates some other guy or something.
OR she's just a total control freak.
The second one sounds really bad I know, but I do know some girls like that and these days they're more common than girls who actually are upset with the fact that you smoke.

Sit back and take a ong hard look at your relationship.
He she ever flirted with any guys? Called them hot?
Do you do things for her and she just blows them of like they're nothing?
If yes to any of these, then (excuse the harshness) she's probably just a trifling ass hoe.

I've asked my boyfriend to stop smoking cigs, but that was MONTHS after we started dating, and it wasnt an ultimatum, just asking for him to think about what it wil do for his health in the future.

She probably sees that you really like to smoke (and lets be honest, most of us LOVE it), and is using it against you to be single again.


Sorry if any of this was harsh, Im just giving my opinion.
Hope it helps.

B

[psteve]

Dump the controlling bitch.

[The Dude Of Life]

Fleshlight ftw

[Nailhead]

Dump the controlling bitch.

hell yea, not to be an ass but seriously, wtf is wrong with you that after just a month you are already pussy whipped? Be a man and stand up for what you want in life, don't let some bitch tell you what to do, do what you want to and if she has a problem with it, it's the wrong girl!

[trynagethigh]

man if she doesnt accept you for you then you dont need her. If you were smokin crack or shootin dope that would be different, but smokin bud? nah, lose her quickly and find someone who wants you just as you are. Good luck

[EbelEyes]

Why can't she just let you be you?

Maybe think about that.

[geonagual]

Damn...if that girl was here, she would be doing the Fred Flinstone (you know where he shrinks down cause she is so embarrassed.) but brother, she is just looking for an excuse..but either way, she is going to be a pain in the ass in the long run...you aint got no time to be worrying about her...plus, think about this...you break up with her before she breaks up with you...puts you in a whole new light of power..take it easy

[slipknotpsycho]

i'll never understand people who will quit for a GF.... i mean yeah, fine you quit this and do what she wants.... what's she gonna wanna change next? if she can't accept you for who you are, then there's no point in even trying... there will always be something else... and as h4h pointed out, unelss you're planning on marrying her it's DEFINATELY not worth it....

[rebgirl420]

Dump her ass! People should love you for who you are. Don't change for anyone. Besides you've only been dating for a month or so. There are sooo many other girls out there who either smoke or are tolerant of it.

[Nailhead]

I don't understand how anybody can get so hung up on a girl they've only been with for a month. Why do so many guys stop doing things they like because some girl told them to stop? Shouldn't it be obvious at that point she's not someone you should be with? I mean, yea I know great sex will make it seem like not a big deal, but come on, have some self respect and don't be so whipped!