Wow, this is crazy! Need advice! Sorry about the long read.

[imitator]

25-30 isnt much compared to what they are offering you right now. You are getting payed a decent sum, for part time work, and they are willing to pay for your schooling, which unless you are going to a crackerjack school, isnt cheap.

And just because you are worth a certain amount, doesnt mean you will find a job paying that.

Do you like what you do right now? Do you enjoy your job, can you tolerate doing it?

How much does this girl care for you? If she cares so much, wouldnt she be willing to try things after she gets out of school?

Personally, and I apologize if it sounds harsh or rude, but you are doing the stereotypical fucking retarded thing. The entire ordeal is so one sided, yet you dont seem to be seeing it. What is she doing to meet in the middle to make things work? It doesnt sound like she is doing anything, but yet you are willing to make all the compromises, and give up everything, for someoen who isnt even out of highschool yet? I apologize, but most highschoolers are fucking retarded, its in their nature. They dont know what they want, and they dont exactly make the best choices. Fickle creatures they be.

Also, you need to start thinking about your resume. You say in a few months you will be done with your associates, so I am assuming you are stopping schooling there and looking to the job market. Well, from personal experience, let me tell you that degree's dont mean jack shit anymore, its about the actual experience and references. I didnt get shit for jobs until after I got a few nice names on my resume as previous employers, even though I held a degree from a solid University.

You need to look to your future, you are young, and while that means that you can fuck up and still get back on track more or less unphased, it doesnt mean you should let that happen.

Personally though, it sounds like you already made up your mind before you even typed up the first post. Whatever your choice is, godspeed and the best wishes towards it, but if you havent decided firmly yet, take the time to really analyze everything. If you still feel that moving back home to try to get together with her again is the best choice, then so it is, but by the way you word everything you say, I dont think you really ever have given the job even a passing glance.

[gorillas695]

Iam female and it sounds to me like she loves u but is a nypho and does not want to hurt u by committing to u. She is young and will come around. Don't put your life on hold waiting, just keep in touch and it will happen when she is ready. It took me twelve yrs to marry the man I loved because we hooked up when i was 17. I didn't want to be another divorse statistic so we went through affairs and threesomes and experimented first after we made it through we realized we were meant to be together.

[Nailhead]

Whats up my homies!! Updateifications! 1. I am getting me AS at a tech school in 3 months, and will make 25 to 30$ph outta school... so i am not worried about bagging grocery's. 2. I am 20, not too young, but not old. 3. I decided to decide myself, and not leave my eternal fate to that of a website (I do however, love your insight).

the funny thing though.... is put yourself in my situation.... you wouldnt make the right decision EVEN if you read this shit EVERYDAY!!!

You can easily make $25 an hour at a grocery store lol :P

You are also so naive to think you will get a job after graduating that tech school, and as I've researched myself, most tech schools are insanely expensive and taught by idiot teachers. The schools simply can't afford to pay the teachers enough, because the smart ones are still working in that field, not teaching!

The best choice I made for myself was NOT signing up for a tech school that would have cost me about $30k for 2 years of school that isn't even valued by tech companies.

You are not only immature naive in your relationship, but with everything else. You really need to grow up, but I can tell you aren't actually going to take any advice you get, you have your foot all the way down on the pedal and are heading straight for that brick wall and are ignoring everyone telling you to stop.

[TheGreatBenzino]

KK so i have an Updateification, I decided to get married to............ARIZONA for five more fucking years!! YUHUP! i did waht all you siad i should do but didnt htink i would do! She just wasnt positive enough for me.... so i said i am staying!! So now its time to get my shit together and take the SAT's! THANK ALL!

[Nailhead]

for a second I thought you really were getting married lol

So are you going to a tech school or taking up that job offer from your boss? Either way it should be a better direction, always make sure to get your career in gear first, then after you have that done worry about relationships. Good luck!

[TheGreatBenzino]

for a second I thought you really were getting married lol

So are you going to a tech school or taking up that job offer from your boss? Either way it should be a better direction, always make sure to get your career in gear first, then after you have that done worry about relationships. Good luck!

I'm going to a tech school right now, when i graduate in Feb 2008 i will continue working and they will pay for me to go to ASU. its all good.

[TheGreatBenzino]

KK ladies and gents these are the details!

Today i told my boss i was staying.PROMOTION I work from 7am to 4pm, 37500 salary (a little more than 18 an hour). They will pay 90% of my tuition to Arizona State University (ASU) if i get A's, 75% if get B's, 50% if i get C's. SO! i am not going home anymore...still a little bummed but its all good!

peace easy!

[imitator]

KK ladies and gents these are the details!

Today i told my boss i was staying.PROMOTION I work from 7am to 4pm, 37500 salary (a little more than 18 an hour). They will pay 90% of my tuition to Arizona State University (ASU) if i get A's, 75% if get B's, 50% if i get C's. SO! i am not going home anymore...still a little bummed but its all good!

peace easy!

Glad to hear about the good news, and dont sweat the being bummed out man. Keep your eyes open, good things happen all the time, and you can find them as long as you are looking.

Keep us updated on how things end up going bud.

[TryptamineScape]

that's a fucking awesome job...and no worries friend...I was with someone for three years and then the same situation almost, except my job wasn't quite as good, and so on...but...needless to say I'm over it...I came back home later, we're best friends, everything is perfect, don't stress man.