Quote Originally Posted by TheGreatBenzino
KK homie! thanx for the advice. I agree with everything you say. Except, the most important thing in my life is love. I know i have a future, no matter if i take this oppurtunity or not.
If you don't care that your future involves you bagging groceries and barely being able to make your mortgage payment, (assuming you even have enough money to save up for a down payment on a home that is), then by all means, go for "love". But really, you are very immature in thinking that you will miss out on love if you dump her for your future. There will always be another, and you really need to get your career together before you get in any serious relationships. You are passing up on an opportunity very few people are ever offered, you are foolish to do so over a relationship!

The best advice I can give you is to listen to the Tom Leykis show. Go to BlowmeupTom.com and click the "Listen Live" link in the upper right corner.

You probably have heard of him, he was on in Phoenix for a short time till the station dropped him, but you can always listen online from 3-8pm online, and I strongly suggest you do so. He mostly advises young guys simply how to get more tail with less money, his show brings up good reasons why you never should get married, or be in a serious relationship until you have your career together first.