Parents:advice needed

[Reminissions]

So on Friday night my friend called me up and told me he rented harold and kumar go to white castle and to go over there and watch it, i asked my mom if i could go and she said yes and let me go and told me to be home at 10, she also said she would smell my breath to see if i smoked when i got home. I went over there watched the movie and came back home, she smelled my breath and told me i smoked, so did my dad, well my mom jumped on me and started beating the shit outta me, so i grabbed my coat and left, i went to a friends house till one in the morning, i came back and well, my parents just started bitching at me saying that i would never amount to anything and im just a junkie loser and that they wished that they never had me, while they were bitching i guess my dad had enough so he picked up the tv remote and threw it at my head at like a hundered mph he hit me in the head with it and i went down, o no he didnt stop at that he proceeded to get up and beat the shit out of me while i was on the ground, of course im not going to get up and punch him back cuz that would just make the matter worse, but they said i could move out and that they dont give a fuck anymore, now im torn between two things i could move to my friends house and pay him 100 bux a month to stay there or i could stay home and deal with this bullshit. im just not shure what to do right now, it feeels as if my soul was torn out and trampled on. Like i said in posts before i told them i smoke pot but they hate it they are just too ignorant to accept it.

Reminissions Reviewed by Reminissions on 01-29-2005. Parents:advice needed So on Friday night my friend called me up and told me he rented harold and kumar go to white castle and to go over there and watch it, i asked my mom if i could go and she said yes and let me go and told me to be home at 10, she also said she would smell my breath to see if i smoked when i got home. I went over there watched the movie and came back home, she smelled my breath and told me i smoked, so did my dad, well my mom jumped on me and started beating the shit outta me, so i grabbed my Rating: 5

[chris420]

dude just let ur parents know that pot isnt affecting ur life in any way.. keep ur grades up, dont just bum out. by keeping ur grades up itll make ur parents think about it with more of a open mind. but yeah its true that there r people way to closed minded about grass.. talk to ur parents and let them know that ur not doing any other drug and give em some real facts about ganja

[Reminissions]

i tried showing them facts and such but that didnt help, my dad replied with this statement " You can go online and find a wed site saying that being gay is good cuz u have a clean colon but it doesnt mean its right you piece of shit loser" those are preatty much his exact words.

[soldier1944]

your dad is an asshole

[Hektik]

I say move out, and before you leave give your dad a 2 piece and a biscuit

[Jimmicrackedcorn]

NO no NO,
Fuck that, they have gone beyond reason, your dad beat the fuck out of you for the substances you choose to put in your body, he didn't try and understand why you do it, but instead selfishly flung a remote at your head to hurt you..........and then proceeded to beat the shit out of you while your mother looked on, almost saying she thought that u deserved that treatment for your heinous crime of being a 'junkie'. I disagree with chris about trying to get them to understand about how weed isn't that bad and educating them on the scientific basis that weed in comparison to other psychoactives pales in comparison on effect:side effect ratio. The main active constituent of cannabis, THC, has a guesstimated LD50 (the dose at which half the test subjects died) it's monumentally high. The therapeutic index of THC is a ratio of 1:40,000, one being the amount needed to achieve a high, and 40,000 being the amount required to overdose, apart from this, the history of marijuana use stems way way back, several thousand years of usage and not 1 recorded fatality that has occured directly from overdose, sure sum ppl hav gotten so battered that they may have wrapped there car around a tree, or stumbled over a cliff (dunno how this would happen, personally). Your parents haven't a fucking clue what they are talking about, and you shouldn't waste your time 'respecting' these ignorant shitheads, who must think they know the answers to the universe to justify beating the fuck out of you for smoking some weed. It must be a really shit time for you, how the ppl you thought would never do you wrong in life, ure parents, betray your trust over something they don't understand, you could educate and try and help them understand which, over time would eventually happen with all the scientific evidence supporting the uses of cannabis, of which they couldn't turn a blind eye too, and then they would come around and everythin will go back to happy families. But it still happened, they said they don't give a fuck about there son/daughter, they kicked the shit out of you, and shredded any support they may have given you in the past by saying that you won't amount to 'much', 'much' obviously being what they are, ignorant bastards, who despise any1 who doesn't share there viewpoint, a very good example of humanity as it stands throughout history. If I were you (and could afford it) I would move out, just because they are your parents gives them no right to think they are better than you, they may be older and know how to set up a mortgage, pay bills, etc. but all of this does not make you better than the man living on the street. In the eyes of society, yes you are a success, but as this example of selfishness and misunderstanding has proven, they are no better than the man who didn't amount to 'much', they are close minded fuck ups trying to physically force there opinions on you (an opinion without basis) so to put it bluntly
GO BOLLOX.
Assess the situation, don't look at them as your parents, just as ppl, would you rather live with people who you can't be yourself around due to fear and moral obligation? or would you rather go sumwhere where you can be who you wanna be?
So which would you be happier in?
Remember, its you who has to live your life.

[silentbob9898]

dude if you can i would suggest moving out

[florida boy 3]

get your own place, tell your parents do not come around untill they respect you for who you are. it may be tough being on your own, but you can't let them mistreat you like that.

[Jimmicrackedcorn]

it appears I may have fucked up the figures with the therapeutic index, they are pretty different dependent upon the source, but one thing for certain is that it is over 1:10,000, alcohol has a T.I. of about 1:4

http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Hollow/9741/lethal.html

http://www.walnet.org/rosebud/ancienthistory.html

http://www.geocities.com/cannabinoid...e/General.html

[Nullific]

Fuck paying them rent or anything, if you have marks from this incident take pictures and sue them, depending on your age of course. Don't be worried about getting in trouble with the law or anything, they accused you of smoking doesn't mean that you were and it definately should not have resulted in abuse.

If you're 16 or older look into your state/counties emancipation laws.