My periods were hellish, too! Because of the IUD, they lasted 7-8 days! Menopause was a relief- even without adding hormones that the doctor pushes. I'll stick with my own hormones or lack there of, thank you! The hot flashes are a drag, but bearable, plus they are lessening as time goes on, both in frequency and strength. :thumbsup: Don't fear menopause! It ain't that bad! - Granny:hippy: