well its not really a relationship, but its always been an issue with him that i dont want to label our time together... he wants me to admit that hes my boyfriend when hes not. he wants me to as he put it "get over the fact that i broke your heart but im trying to make it up to you" like i can control how i feel.. he wants me to take him back and pretends everything is perfect and we can get married and have dogs and kids and the whole nine... and i just cant.. not just for what he did, but sooooo much other Shit that happened before and after he came along.. oh and the fact that i found out i was pregnant two weeks after we were no longer speaking, had an abortion and didnt tell him about it b4 or for 3 years after.. oh and were only 23and i just told him 2 days ago i didnt want to see him anymore..