Quote Originally Posted by someuser
I'll try that as see if that helps... I know when she or I worry about it, it seems to make it worse... I just dont want to always have to use it you know? If it takes a bit for her to get back to 'normal' then I'll keep a vat of astro-gel next to our bed... But I just dont want to do that for the rest of our relationship you know?

I mean, what about when we want to be more spontaneous? Cant always have lube with us.




Yeah, I'm starting to think that being the type of woman she is she is willing to do whatever she thinks makes me happy even if it might be 'distracting' her... She has said to me recently when we kinda talked about this that shaving makes her clit much more sensitive... But I figured she was talking more about the residual rubbing during sex, not when I'm down there 'parting' things and getting my tongue where it needs to be...

I hate for her to shave though cause I really prefer my woman to look like a woman and not some young teen/early 20 something (no offense, I just like women who look like women) but if that is what it takes I guess it wouldnt be as much as a big deal.


I appreciate the thought you put into this man... It's an important thing for me so I appreciate you giving your thought-out advice :jointsmile:
No prob dude, I did it because after reading a few more of your posts I got the feeling that you really do like her, you just are worried that this issue is going to end your relationship with worse results in the future.

If you two are close at all, then you are going to pick up on each others most hidden moods. Wether subconsciously or consciously, the tiniest of insecurities can have the largest of effects in the bedroom where intimacy is truly defined. Love the things about her body that she hates and make sure to tell her all the time. Make her feel sexy, and dont think that using lube makes you less of a man. Ive had sex for 8 hours with no lube, and othertimes I needed it after 20 minutes. Not a big deal, its just the way things work. Try getting a lube that takes two drops and lasts for like 4 hours... they sell em in sex shops.
GraziLovesMary Reviewed by GraziLovesMary on . Question for women: Vaginal dyness and sex in general I'm 29yrs (male) and would consider myself to be pretty sexually experienced. I will admit on a very few occasions over the YEARS dryness came up but rare and far inbetween. So I've been dating this girl (she is 26) and several times now this has been an issue... Twice or three times being severe enough to either stop or be forced to use lube (astro gel seems to be a decent subsitute but I guess my ego doesnt like it regardless)... Other occasions I could just feel her getting 'dry' even Rating: 5