Question for women: Vaginal dyness and sex in general

[ScaryMissMary]

Wow you sound like a real charming fella.

[LuckyG]

Wow you sound like a real charming fella.

Quoted for truth.

Yeah, I'm a guy so I wear my anger on my sleeve

Thanks for encouraging sexist stereotypes. I don't mean to come off as attacking you but it really pisses me off when people blame their personal faults on imagined gender-specific predilections.

[someuser]

Frankly, it sounds like the communication between you two is lousy to begin with. I'm not normally this pessimistic, but the more I read, the more I think this thing is doomed.

Actually, we have very good communication and we have talked about this before... The agreed upon conclusion was to first switch BC (from nuva ring to the ortho lo) and see how that went...

I also want to point out that when this happened I totally consoled her and said everything was fine... I didnt want her, at that time, to get upset over something I do know isnt her 'fault'. But I was frustrated and wanted to vent more then anything else....

Plus, as I said, we talked about this before (my girl and I) and I wanted input outside of what was said between her and I... We have blunt conversations but I know she loves me very much and, when it comes to sex, I dont know how blunt she would be with me... Again, hence the outside imput desire :thumbsup:

[someuser]

Maybe your just boring her in bed, try something different, role play, new positions, a little submission/dominance, it could be possible that it is you that is the problem.

I'm totally open to that possibility. Problem is, when I ask she says (quote) "she is more then satisfied" and that her 'body' sometimes doesnt always 'cooperate' with her mind/mental state... Which I totally dont get... When I'm mentally there, unless there is chemical substances in my body, my body cooperates.

[someuser]

I wonder what your girlfriend would think if she saw this thread.

My gf and I already had this conversation. If she saw this thread she wouldnt be reading anything new EXCEPT that I acted like it was no big deal this last Saturday cause I felt there was no use talking about the same thing with her again...

[someuser]

Wow you sound like a real charming fella.

Actually I am. However, I am a blunt/frank person who wanted blunt/frank imput. Which is why I accept all the criticism from this thread without any grudge or anger. I see no reason to pussy foot around the topic with a bunch of strangers on the 'net. I would sooner just get it out there black & white and hear the responces.

[ghosty]

well to be quite blunt... leaving her for this reason would make you kind of an ass... just use some lube, and if you're both still getting off and she's enjoying it then whats the big fuckin deal? and if something she has no control over feels like a kick in the gut to your ego, you really need to work on other means of self-confidence cause thats pretty damn shallow

[VoidLivesOn]

hey when your doing it with her say "I PAAAPPPIIII" chicks love that shit

[Megaz]

Actually she's suppose to say that. What you would be saying is "OH DADDY", that is a literal spanish to english translation.

[BBoyShotty]

You're pissed about something she has absolutely no control over?

im not agreeing with him, but i know plenty of girls who would drop a guy in a heartbeat because of his size n isnt that the same thing?