Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Frankly, it sounds like the communication between you two is lousy to begin with. I'm not normally this pessimistic, but the more I read, the more I think this thing is doomed.
Actually, we have very good communication and we have talked about this before... The agreed upon conclusion was to first switch BC (from nuva ring to the ortho lo) and see how that went...

I also want to point out that when this happened I totally consoled her and said everything was fine... I didnt want her, at that time, to get upset over something I do know isnt her 'fault'. But I was frustrated and wanted to vent more then anything else....

Plus, as I said, we talked about this before (my girl and I) and I wanted input outside of what was said between her and I... We have blunt conversations but I know she loves me very much and, when it comes to sex, I dont know how blunt she would be with me... Again, hence the outside imput desire :thumbsup: