I'm 29yrs (male) and would consider myself to be pretty sexually experienced. I will admit on a very few occasions over the YEARS dryness came up but rare and far inbetween.

So I've been dating this girl (she is 26) and several times now this has been an issue... Twice or three times being severe enough to either stop or be forced to use lube (astro gel seems to be a decent subsitute but I guess my ego doesnt like it regardless)... Other occasions I could just feel her getting 'dry' even though it isnt enough to cause us to stop or use gel.

I never had experience with this before and I'm concerned it might be me... She tells me she has 3+ orgasms (sometimes more) on average and just a few nights ago she had one so intense she screamed out and said she almost cried... She said it was her best one ever... BUT, I guess I'm still getting a little insecure here because for a young otherwise healthy girl to get dry on me is really messing with my ego.

I KNOW dryness can be an issue from time to time with women so before (if anyone) responds with some generic canned responce that it just sometimes happens, keep in mind this wasnt an issue with us in the beginning, wasnt an issue to my understanding in her past w/ others, and she is otherwise healthy (no yeast infection or any kind of other female condition).

She was on the Nuva ring and at first we blammed it on that... But I had my doubts because many times she still got so wet with me it was actually too much and it actually decreased sensations... But I gave her and the side-effect list the benefit of the doubt.

Now she is on Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo and this shit just happened again last night... I was so goddamn pissed I just went out and smoked a fat bowl till 5am in the morning.

To makes matters worse it was Half-Way (Irish thing) and she was pretty drunk... Which, for HER, makes her really horny... I wasnt even in the mood actually and then I was like, "What the hell" and she was all wet at first then 15mins later she was dry.



So I'm at the point where, while I love her, I just about had enough. I dont care if I'm being selfish, I'm sick of feeling my ego being kicked in the gut. Also, while I've been told I'm very good at oral (on her) I cant seem to get anything going on down there for the life of me... I mean I NEVER been with a girl who I cant get them to cum with oral... She actually drys up!!!!

I dont know... Right now I just feel like saying 'fuck it' and going back to what I consider to be a 'normal' woman who can stay fucking wet for more then 15 mins.
someuser Reviewed by someuser on . Question for women: Vaginal dyness and sex in general I'm 29yrs (male) and would consider myself to be pretty sexually experienced. I will admit on a very few occasions over the YEARS dryness came up but rare and far inbetween. So I've been dating this girl (she is 26) and several times now this has been an issue... Twice or three times being severe enough to either stop or be forced to use lube (astro gel seems to be a decent subsitute but I guess my ego doesnt like it regardless)... Other occasions I could just feel her getting 'dry' even Rating: 5