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Her and I have had very blunt talks about what I and her like... She gets multiple and forceful orgasms from vaginal intercourse when I hit her G-spot. I mean, she goes fucking crazy and she already 'squirted' on me twice...

The THING is though I want to do more for HER then just the G-spot thing... I talked to her and she just doesnt have much of a response as it relates to oral (she isnt as open as I am sexually and I think she gets embarrassed).

She has mentioned she wanted to play 'doctor' which I'm totally cool with but part of her fantasy involves toys we just dont have the money for at this very moment...

So, I've done my best to subsitute and be romantic (candle lit bubble baths, soft music, sex in the living room by the fire place where we can hear the rain drops, sex outside under the stars, and a whole shit-load more)...

But again, her lack of response with oral is really distrubing... I hear your suggestions and I've tried them... I fear it might be more phychological. I think she gets concerned over odor or 'discharge' (which was kinda common with the nuva ring) and I think she just cant focus...

That or maybe I should tell her to shave... She usually perfers her privates shaved but she doesnt because she knows I like hair down there... Maybe that is fucking with the sensitivity (and adding to odor that is making her self-conscious)? I dunno.
Hmmm... this new information sheds alot of light.. If she prefers shaved herself, then even though shes doing it for you, maybe she secretly feels less attractive? Distractions are bad if you want her to orgasm, as you well know. As opposed to telling her to shave, though, maybe try asking her if having hair down there makes her feel less attractive. I know what you mean about her being embarrassed to talk about sex, Ive dealt with that plenty, but you can always get it out of them as long as you can make them feel comfortable.

Good luck.