Quote Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary
All women are different dude, as you have found out. Dont be too much of a "man" (pussy) to ask her how she likes it. If youve tried light stimulation, maybe try licking a bit harder. And if you change it up too often during oral, maybe that is ruining her concentration like it has with women that I have encountered. Try being as consistent as possible for as long as possible. Find a spot or speed, or method that makes her moan, and stick with that for as long as humanly possible.

And god damn dude... man up a little.
Her and I have had very blunt talks about what I and her like... She gets multiple and forceful orgasms from vaginal intercourse when I hit her G-spot. I mean, she goes fucking crazy and she already 'squirted' on me twice...

The THING is though I want to do more for HER then just the G-spot thing... I talked to her and she just doesnt have much of a response as it relates to oral (she isnt as open as I am sexually and I think she gets embarrassed).

She has mentioned she wanted to play 'doctor' which I'm totally cool with but part of her fantasy involves toys we just dont have the money for at this very moment...

So, I've done my best to subsitute and be romantic (candle lit bubble baths, soft music, sex in the living room by the fire place where we can hear the rain drops, sex outside under the stars, and a whole shit-load more)...

But again, her lack of response with oral is really distrubing... I hear your suggestions and I've tried them... I fear it might be more phychological. I think she gets concerned over odor or 'discharge' (which was kinda common with the nuva ring) and I think she just cant focus...

That or maybe I should tell her to shave... She usually perfers her privates shaved but she doesnt because she knows I like hair down there... Maybe that is fucking with the sensitivity (and adding to odor that is making her self-conscious)? I dunno.