from what i read.....these two have not had actual intercourse yet, so if i have this right, he is going down on her and she does not go down on him. Are we saving the actual intercourse for marraige? If you are, get on the same page on the oral sex, like weather that is going to be a part of your sex life. take it from someone who has not been gone down on in 14 year and gives head all the time. GET ON THE SAME PAGE! if she does not like it now, chances are that she will not learn to like it. My husband never did, and i even gave up giving him head for a year to make my point, and it was me that missed out on giving all that head. Oh well...like i said, get on the same page, like understand what she will and will not do. if head is so important to you that you will not marry someone who wont give head, then maybe this girl is not for you.