The concept is new, therefore i needed time to comprehend it, your quote was from the past, i have since understood and moved on. I did put myself in his situation, empathy, i believe. I assesed the situation and decided a route of action that differed his and favoured mine. I in no way criticize his actions, I just continue to make mine and mine alone. I listen to advice and ponder what best suits my preference utilitarian aswell as other values. If someone needs to change, then they must realize it for themselves before it can truly occur. Forced change is submission of will and of freedom. I believe this a situation that has no right or wrong answer, one person is no more intelligent then another for deciding to quit cannabis for someone or not. It is a situation that can only be decided if you are actually in the circumstances, when they immediately effect you, then and only then can you decide what to do and which is the better decision for you.