I just need to find a way to say this to her. Perhaps I just will not answer the phone anymore when she calls and she will get the drift. It hurts doing this, but I feel this is the best way for me to deal with this issue.


nah.
the only way to deal with people that you care about is straight up. they deserve no less. just tell her how you feel plain and simple.

she'll be more pissed if you do the dontanswerthephonewhenevericallanymore thing.

its kinda like critiquing someones work - are you really helping them if you beat around the bush and give them bs answers to save their 'feelings'? not saying be an aHole but there is a happy medium.