Don't take what other people say too personal. You'll see, soon enough she will be smoking weed... tons of hypocrits out there and i've seen my share... As far as friends go if they were your true "friends" that shouldn't phase them to think you're evil or anything. Friends come and go and i'm sure you'll find a new crowd of peopel to hang out with. It all depends on what you do. If and when that chick says "oh he's just a pot head" who ever she's talking to just say something like "oh she's just a crack head" (speed, amp. what ever she does) or just ignore it. Sooner or later she'll grow up unless she has some horrible grudge on you...