i need some fucking help please

[bruiser]

sounds like you need Jesus dude!

[heavenlydreams231981]

What you have to do is try and find the people that smoke pot, they will probably have more in common with you than those that don't smoke. Also, try and find a girl who also enjoys smoking pot, you'll argue less.

[cherrytoker]

You need a good hippie toking lover girlfriend who can show you that you dont need anyone.Im getting rid of some friends i have right now cause there just not worth the words and they have no respect.Changing friends seems irrational but its usually for the better

[justanotheramerican]

Don't let stupid people make you feel bad for being who you are. And don't feel like you should change to make them happy.

Just be yourself and fuck all the ones who think less of you for it.

[teknodppr]

Heres what i have to say on this subject:

First of all, i know what you mean when you say your depressed and shit. I go through that sometimes. I used to get it bad. Id feel like no one liked me and that I have some kind of problem that i can't figure out. Shit i just had 2 of my best friends for the past 2 years steal $80 bucks from me. I was pissed off for a few days then it was over. I realize that im not going to want to hang out with them anymore and told myself that i dont need them. When it used to come to girls, it was worst of all. It killed me why these girls would like me, then they wouldnt wanna be anything more than friends. When you like like a girl, its so easy to make yourself feel bad if she doesnt like you. This is because when you like a girl, your brain releases a bunch of chemicals that make you feel something different for the girl you like and if it seems like you arent going to hook up, well it makes you feel depressed and rejected. What im trying to say is that I had a very hard time coping with some of the stress that i brought on myself. Id feel like i didnt ever wanna meet any other girls, all i wanted was the one girl i liked. Im 20 now and im just starting college in a month. I usually dont talk to a lot of friends and stay home like 5 outta 7 nights of the week. I havent even had a real girlfriend. Its not because theres anything wrong with me. Id say im good looking. Not ugly but not hot enough to have girls come up and talk to me (most of the time). Probably the number one thing that def. gave me a boost of self-esteem was when i read the book double your dating. Sure theres tons of things in there that tell you how to act around girls to make you more attracting, but most of all it gave me tons of confidence. A big part of the book is about you and your self image.

aww shit heres a link to it: http://www.torrentspy.com/search.asp...tails&id=68951

download this and install it will let you open the file:
http://prdownloads.sourceforge.net/b...2.exe?download

Before it has been really hard to just forget about a certain girl you like, trust me i know too well. If you tell yourself something enough times, then you will start to believe it. Btw something that helps me out if Im having a problem with a girl or whatever and im taking it too serious is do this. Ill close my eyes and imagine me standing in my yard or where ever. Then imagine what it would look like at someone elses life. Im sure you what find almost everyone has some kind of stress even if they dont seem like it. Id bet that your stress doesnt show to hardly anyone. Remember you are not the only person dealing with this. Im sure there are a thousand people dealing with the same thing. Also ive found out that trying to only focus on the present helps out. Think about it. The past is the past. What good does it do to dwell on a past memory? What good is looking at the future? you cant see it. For some reason everytime i like a girl, i usually start thinking about us and a long-term relationship. Why? i dont fuckin know. thats just how i am. This would be the main problem cause its from this that i got my stress. So i just try and focus on whats going on now, and it works pretty good. It helps me not like a girl too much. oh and btw about this girl that wont talk to you because she heard you smoked sometimes. are you guys friends, or do you just like her and talk to her. straight up ask her why she is judging you? i know that when I didnt smoke, id think that pot heads were not cool at all. id judge them to be bad people.