[In the mean time, even on SLS its hard to find *REAL* couples that will actually show up...most only want to chat and play e-mail tag.]

So true man. For us, if we start to talk to folks, we find, so many are in such a hurry, like *playtime* gets all used up or something!! We like to invite like minded folks to our house, for a noncommittal dinner, some drinks, and evaluation. If the lady isnt talking, or cant warm up, usually fear is not going to let playtime happen. We also watch how the man reacts, if he is pushy, or constantly urgeing his wife to reach out to my lady, something is wrong, something just isnt sitting well.

Most couples we meet, both are seeking fun and frolic, you just feel a nice friendly atmosphere. A lite touch to a hand, an arm, rubbing shoulders, then looking directly into a ladies eyes lets you know if she is comfortable, is ready for farther exploration...respectfully, directly, nice slow motions, carressing her largest lovemaking organ, the skin. Worship her skin man, and she will melt.

Ever show up to a MeetnGreet, and realize, the other couple...the lady, is your cousin?!! What a great laugh we got from that!! And NO, no playtime that time!!