Swinging is just a matter of trust and personal preference. I peronally really get off with watching my guy with other partners, if you did it only to benifit yourself I really don't think you'd last in the lifestyle, it would probably make your relationship fall apart.

It is hard, MississippiSteve to find actualy partners who you're compatiable with and then set up a date that works for everyone, but I'd like to believe the chase is what makes the outcome all that more enjoyable! ^,^