Quote Originally Posted by stinkyattic
I don't see this thread ending well. That last comment sealed the deal.

This 'relationship' is NOT going to end well either. T
ake it from someone who has been there.

And oddly enough, I had a long sit-down last night wiht one of my closest male friends who was having a guilt attack because he was starting to think that HE was doing the same thing, and I told him the honorable thing is simply to end it and cease all communication with the 18 year old girl- not woman, GIRL- in question, who I have a great amount of respect for personally. She's old beyond her years but that doesn't mean she doesn't have the emotional issues of a teenager still.
Look at yourself honestly. Look at HIM honestly- trust me, older guys who are worth dating are looking for a mature woman who is a potential partner. Not to be cruel, but he almost certainly looks at what he's got going on with you not as a relationship at all, but as a fling.

Do what you want. I could tell you, "Be careful and protect yourself". But the only way to do either of those things is NOT to put yourself in situations where there is an imbalance of power. And this one is WAY outta whack.

Oh- and providing a minor with a 'bottle of lemon bacardi'- and then having sex with her- that's simply disgusting. Shame on him.

first I bought that bottle. I have a bar in my apartment he comes over and drinks there. I drink his stuff too, but he actually didnt let me drink last time I hung out with him because he was tired of seeing me wasted all the time.

and what makes someone mature anways? If we can have good long conversations with each other isn't that ok? Hes not the most 'mature' guy himself. I dont feel like I have to play grown up with him.


This thread is stupid. delete it if you want.
im messed up thats the point. im so confused im goign insane. ive been with another older guy who was 36, I was 17. i caught him and his wife out to lunch after we 'broke up' he told me i was supposed to be a one night stand. ive been with abusers, and useres, and i dont no how to end this shit.


im sorry i need to vent, as Ive lost all my friends, to either jail or college, or 'I'm jst too far to visit' which I guess this is why Im so into him.

maybe im just way over my head. maybe moving out so soon was dumb. ive given myself hives im so stressed out.

sorry for being such an as on this thread.