Quote Originally Posted by mauichick
good advice
Sweetie, I wasted 2 1/2 yrs pining over a "perfect" ex. We got along GREAT after the breakup and I was always waiting for him to say he was ready for us to get back to the life we'd planned. Then I met my fiance and realized that my ex, though he's a GREAT guy, he wasn't the one for me. My fiance and I started off as friends and it was the beautiful progression of a wonderful friendship. When you find "the one" there won't be any question in your mind or heart...you'll just know. It's like a really soothing calm that washes over your heart and soul....