the fact remains that she shouldn't HAVE to come b/t her boyfriend and his sausage party. He as a responsible and interested boyfriend should WANT to spend time with her regardless of whos got the green.

i personally have been w/ my lady for 7 years (just got engaged last weekend) and we see each other for about 1-2 hours a night. i run my own business so i'm very busy and she works. i LOVE the time i spend with her and i know the feeling is mutual and wouldn't want it any other way. Usually its hard to let something go that makes you feel 'comfortable' as i'm sure u and your man are but if he won't meet you (AT LEAST) halfway i don't think he's worth your time.

and if all else fails quit having sex w/ him till he makes some improvements. that'll light a fire under him - or not; then you'll truly know what your relationship means to him.

good luck