Cought

[HATT420]

When I first got caught, it was really bad. My mom went ballistic and laid it on thick. She went as far as saying she would just quit her new job (highest paying job she'd ever had. period.) and work at McDonald's so she could moniter me. Then she threatened to move us away and take me away from all of it. Then she said I was betraying her trust or whatever. Then she started to cry and told me to leave her the fuck alone. (exact words).

I told her I would quit, but I, obviously, didn't. She thought all way OKAY until one night I got caught by leaving seeds on the table. (Wasn't actually MY fault, but I take blame for it because I didn't clean up the house well enough that night) So, when that happened she threatened to send me to my father's family (they hate me more than Bush hates "Terrorism" simply because I'm a half-breed, and not of true blood) and force me to leave there. Then she threatened with the police, later on.

I told her right there and then that I didn't care anymore. I told her I didn't do pot to fit in or to feel welcome, I did it because it was a really good way to relax, and I enjoyed it. I told her it hasn't affected my grades or made a worse person. (My GPA actually went UP the first six weeks I started to smoke regularly) In fact, even if it is sorth of pathetic, pot made me realize you can't be bitter and lock yourself in your room, that's black with bedsheets over the window to keep the lock out and leave a life on the computer. It made me realize that I can't stay sad and depressed and think that the world hates me my entire life. To grow up being like that, being that unhappy, is even more frickin' pathetic than smoking pot.

I told her all of that. I also told her I wasn't going to stop smoking. We made an agreement:
- I'm out of her house by 18, college or not, "I'm done with it."
- When I'm busted, don't think of calling her. I can rot in that jail cell (her words).
- I would no longer allow people (MINORS) to smoke in my house, because of the fact that she could get arrested and our house taken away, etc.

So, she still doesn't want me doing it, but I told her that it's my decision, and I will make MY decisions by myself. It's my life, I said. She said, "It's my home." (thus the 3rd term to the agreement)
So, I do it. Now, I do it because it's really, really relaxing. I'm as responsible as I ever was. If there is homework, I'll do it before I smoke. Get the choors done, laundry, dishes, trash, etc etc. Then, I sit down, light up, and just listen to some music or watch TV.

I don't really understand what's wrong with that.

Anyway, some days are exceptions where I'll let up before I get home, then do all the choors and homework later that night. So, like a switch up of the regular day.

right on

[jakenthegentiles]

dude my dad caught me with a boddle of crust up pills my friend gave me to put on my weed and he said smoke all u want just dont do other shit i was liek ur souch a stoner

[ermitonto]

Dude, don't give up hope. Piss tests can be easily circumvented (by using someone else's piss, or using one of many piss-cleaning techniques) and better yet once you're 18 nobody can force you into taking a drug test of any kind unless you are convicted of a drug crime, not even your parents. The key is to cut your financial ties to them (the car, etc) so they can't use them as tools to make your behavior conform to their beliefs. Once you are independent you will not be obligated to cooperate with them and you can say "You know what, I'm going to smoke pot whether you like it or not. I can manage my own life now, and if you sic the cops on me I hope you're real proud of yourself for making your own son suffer in a jail cell for doing something he enjoys that doesn't hurt anybody except potentially in the long run himself."

[1e64102e]

Your parents are fucking nazi-scum, dude. I say fuck em. Leave. Go to a community college if you have to. If you get good grades, you can still go to a respectable university. You can get Government housing. Go to canada. Socialism is good.

[Climbing High]

i know that when i move oiut, i will move to canada. i fucking hate america and its lies and hypicritism. canada is just layed back and cool, and thats where i would fit in. plus i can order weed in the mail .

[F L E S H]

Guys, I live in Canada, and it's pretty cool, but don't fool yourselves and think it's pot heaven. It's still illegal, and you can still technically be busted.

BTW, there's no socialism in Canada, we just get a little more the government.

I don't really think that they liked it when I called them "ignorant fucking conservatives.

lol, that didn't help. The best thing to do is just remain calm and explain yourself clearly and calmly, and explain how weed is not Satan in plant form. Being cool and not freaking out and insulting people can go a long way. I know it's hard when someone else is screaming at you, but just give it a shot, and you might be surprised.

[sugarmagnolia]

wow most ur guys posts exagerate the situation way too much. don't even give a shit about it. just let ur parents worry about it. fuck it, u need not worry about it, jsut go along with how u normally live life, or get into some music. music is the high in which no smoke is necessary.