ideas for asking a girl to homecoming

[V-DubLove]

i need a kickass idea to ask a girl to my school's homecoming dance. i've heard of a couple good ideas, but i'm curious if anyone can think of something really cool. i want to do something that she will definitely remember a few years down the road

V-DubLove Reviewed by V-DubLove on 09-16-2007. ideas for asking a girl to homecoming i need a kickass idea to ask a girl to my school's homecoming dance. i've heard of a couple good ideas, but i'm curious if anyone can think of something really cool. i want to do something that she will definitely remember a few years down the road Rating: 5

[birdgirl73]

She's already your established girl?

[V-DubLove]

yeah i'm 99% positive she will be saying yes. homecoming is really early for us this year, it's this coming weekend.

[yoda]

"michael vick wants to go to homecoming with you, but i'd rather take you instead, sound good?"

something humourous, but not over the top

[birdgirl73]

OK, tip #1: Ask her on Monday or Tuesday, early enough that she can plan. Not sure how big a deal it is in your school, but that gives her long enough to do girly things like hair, nails, buying something cute to wear.

Do y'all do mums? I think it'd be fun to drop a couple of little hints. Like maybe give her one of those potted chrysanthemum plants they have in all the plant and grocery stores at this time of year. Tie it with a ribbon, maybe. She'll think, "What's up with this?"

You could do something like a scavenger hunt and lead her toward little clues having to do wtih homecoming, football, and/or parades. At the end of the hunt, you could have a card saying "IOU the best homecoming mum there is if you'll come with me. Please say yes?" Actually you can think of something much better to do and say than I can, I'm sure.

Last time I was asked to homecoming, it went like this:
Him (this guy's now my husband) "So, you wanna go to homecoming?"
Me: "Yep."
Him: "OK. I'll pick you up at 12:30."

Not exactly life-changing. But I still remember it more than 20 years later.

[birdgirl73]

"michael vick wants to go to homecoming with you, but i'd rather take you instead, sound good?"

something humourous, but not over the top

CUTE!! This is SOOOOOOO much better than my corn-fed idea. Definitely incorporate this into your plan!!

[rebgirl420]

You could spell out, "WILL YOU GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME" in rose petals and those cool sparklers

[DaPolarBear]

You could spell out, "WILL YOU GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME" in rose petals and those cool sparklers

Haha nice. I've gotta stash that under "things to do when you've pissed signifigent other off". but with diffrent words them "will you go to homecoming with me"

[rebgirl420]

Haha I seen it on t.v. actually. I never went to homecoming and prom and all that.

[Old Stoner]

Man, try to ask her ASAP to avoid other fighter pilots, who'll do their best to try and shoot you down in flames. Like birdgirl73 said, the earlier the better. She can prepare for the moment, and the anticipation level will be maxed out on the night of the Homecoming dance.

I'd buy one red rose, tie a pink ribbon around it, and then try and catch her close to or near being alone. Hand her the rose, tell her something like "This rose represents my hope and desire to have the honor of taking you to the Homecoming Dance/Game/Whatever. Would you give me that honor?"

I know that it sounds corny as hades to some, but I have found that chivalry, respect, and sincerity works very well when asking a lady out. Speak distinctly, with your eyes meeting hers, with the most sincerest look you can give her. Practice if you have to, in front of a mirror.

If she is the one you want, and she turns you down, or says she'll think about it, give her a day or so, then ask her again, this time giving her maybe a stuffed animal - "Ty" beanie babies are cool, and cost very little. Get her something like a tiger, lion - or something cute like a duck, or maybe a bear or panda. Even better, find out from someone, a friend or someone who knows her, what month her birthday is in, and get her a birthday bear of that month. Write a little note, and if she turned you down - something like "I am still hope and desire that you will change your mind and decide to go with me to the H/C dance." If she said she'll think about it, try the line "I hope and pray you'll decide to go to the dance with me. My dream is to be dancing with YOU that night." Pin the note to the animal with a pin or something. Then try again to catch her alone, and give it to her, let her read it, and see what happens.

I wish you luck, my young friend. Always remember to treat her with respect, and speak distinctly, and with a confident air about you. The gals like a confident fellow.

I bet'cha you'll get her to go, and you'll both have a great time.

But ALWAYS have a backup plan, or someone to ask if she turns you down - that'll possibly get her jealousy juices flowing, and you may end up with her after all is said and done.

Again, good luck, and Peace, my friend!

Old Stoner