Think of your love life as a Banana Kush x NYC Diesel plant. Now, plants require sunlight (good times in life), rich soil (confidence in yourself, a sense of self-trust and reliance), but also we must not forget that plants require rainfall (bad times in life) in order to grow and mature into a healthy, happy kush plant with plenty of delta-9 THC. I suggest you take your own advice via your personal signature. Not a whole lot will happen if you continuously blame yourself (or others, for that matter) for any problems (rainfall) in your life. It happens.