Time for an update. Ok so i ended up just bending the very top about 3 days ago, b/c of my plants 5' height and small stalk diameter i figured this would cause the least amount of stress to my plant. The plant has all of the sudden found out some way to pop its top out of the yarn and is now once again back upright 100%.

The buds are still not showing too much growth after being in flowering now for about 2 months. It is odd, the fastest growing bud sites are all located in the midle of the braches, with still barely no growth on the tops. Keeping in mind that my plant is indoors and 5' tall with only a 400w HPS i think i could have used some supplementary lights around the sides.

It is not like my plant is dying b/c it looks healthy as shit, it is just that my bud sites are producing almost nothing except white hairs, which they have plenty of. Along with the lack of bud sizes the plant seems to have almost no trichs on it. I do not have a magnifying glass, only my eye glasses, but shouldnt i be able to see some trichs on the buds and small bud leaves at 2 months flowering???

Im starting to think my first grow may not end up too pretty.

PS i will try to get some updated pics up soon