Quote Originally Posted by d00d557
Its possible, i was talking to my friend a second ago and he has the exact same problem. he just said lets both break up with our gf's now i'm contemplating it. Maybe i'm just not ready for another relationship to me it seems a little too much chaining down. Even right now I still haven't talked to her she's online but hasnt said shit to me. I'm not really feeling any strong feelings or liking toward her and I have no idea why its like a limbo thing. For some reason though i'm reluctant to br eak up with her. She said she trusts me but for some reason still doesn't like me talking to other girls or hanging out with them. It might just be in the better interest to break up like I said im still contemplating it. Sorry for the spelling ellors
Well...how old are you? Have you been in a serious relationship before? It took me a long time to be totally cool with my boyfriend going to do stuff that I knew other girls were going to be at. That doesn't mean I didn't let him do it, I just was never really pleasant about it. Now I trust him you know and it's great because it is reciprocated and I can go to parties and such without him and it's just fine. Jealousy sometimes can be a really hard thing with a lot of people, and it sucks but sometimes you just gotta deal with it.

Sounds like you might not be ready to include someone else in your life, because let me tell you, serious relationships..it gets to a point where your lives are together...and there's not much you can do to really change that up unto a point..not that thats a bad thing if thats what you want.

Keep in mind that it most likely won't get any easier in the sense of having your own time and stuff and not having anyone to answer to. You have to keep in mind that having a girlfriend means a lot...you won't have the same time to yourself...and won't be able to do what you want when you want..

Although relationships are all different depending on ones maturity.