I grew up in the 50s-60s era when things were much different as far as abuse issues were concearned. I grew up in a small farming village which was founded by my father's ancestors. Everyone knew everyone. I suffered tremendous emotional as well as physical abuse. Of course at the time, I just thought that I was the reason. I would pray to "god" every night to either make me "good" or to take my life(that'll show em!) I have a brother & sister, both older, that were encouraged to join in on the abuse by dear old dad. It has had & continues to have serious consequences on my life. By the way, my siblings were not subjected to abuse. I applaud Crudemood for bringing this topic to light. I wonder how many others on this forum has suffered emotional torture?