The texture. The temperature. The difference between skin-to-skin contact with nerve endings on both sides of the equation versus skin-to-plastic. Like I said, there's no comparison.

Let me hasten to add here that I'm making a distinction between a dildo for vaginal insertion and a vibe for clitoral stimulation because some people automatically think the two are the same thing (and plenty of toys are designed for both uses). For repetitive vibrating motion at a frequency that will help us crest that peak, the vibe is, frankly, unmatched, at least in my opinion. Good oral work comes close. But a vibe still takes the cake. Just don't automatically assume that if a lady likes a vibe on the outside, it means she wants it inside, too.

This is a good example, Cannabis, of an area in which you're going to get different opinions from different ladies. This is also why young men, who are often quick to present themselves as knowing all the secrets to a woman's pleasure, give themselves away immediately as fairly inexperienced when they tout such all-knowing talent. The best lovers let their individual partner be their guide and listen to her instead of deducing that because they've heard something on the net or because a past lover or even a porn star seemed to like a specific technique, it's going to be the be-all, end-all sexual pleaser for all women.