Quote Originally Posted by Arc_of_Light
So what exactly does "knowing how to use it" entail? This is an honest question... I mean, I think the knowing how to use it part is totally dependent on the woman's personal preferences... you have to learn what the hell works for her and that takes time. If your GF is not very communicative of what she wants or likes this can be very difficult... what rocks for one girl can be totally lame for another... or is there some kind of uniformed standard consensus on what the right way to use it is?? Because if there is I want to know that magic formula, seriously.

I guess if you do a different girl every weekend you could develop a standard operational procedure that works for most, but I don't have that kind of millage yet...
You're right, it's all relative. Women, like men, all have different tastes. But I think "knowing how to use it" mainly means endurance. Some guys can't last 5 minutes.
Maybe also a steady rythm? Maybe knowing when to speed up and slow down?
But if you can make a lot of, if not most, girls orgasm through normal intercourse...I would guess you know "how to use it".

and towards the OP....I would imagine cocks feel better since it's natural. i wouldnt know though.. most girls have told me they use dildos just for the vibration and mostly use it on the clit.

then again, what do i know? i'm just another guy......lol