i suppose i should also add:

don't assume that everyone automaticly knows everything that will spark an argument, so if it does happen, i agree to aproach it in a mature manner, mostly by stating my feelings on the comment.... i guess i can only hope the same for everyone else.

anyways, i really do want a truce once and for all... after alot of thinking on the subject i realized someone has to be the bigger man and give first, so this is me giving.