Wow....never seen anyone actually set a time limit on it before. Good luck and get rid of hiim.......however close you may be to his mom I'm not sure that's enough but I hope so. What does she think of him walking five hours to bring you flowers? Why isn't she cracking him over the head for that? That one ALONE is enough to set off plenty of alarm bells in my head.

Don't mince words and don't let him down nicely. Thanks for the memories....we aren't right for each other. Period. Don't discuss it, don't say it's you and not him. Stick to the first two sentences and that's it.....anything else.....get a lawyer first.

good luck......really.