Why why why WHY?!

[angry nomad]

Hey Purple B, from reading this I would say you deffinatly did the right thing and couldn't have really done it in a better way. The way you feel only shows that you care about the dude, but if you don't want to be with him, it's as simple as that, you don't want to be with him.
Good luck @ work with his ma, I hope shes not a total bitch!

haha. can we say, "awkward." good luck!.

[beachguy in thongs]

WE HAVE A STAGE I CLINGER ON OUR HANDS

I think, Stage 1 has something to do with his mother's nipples. This is clearly Stage 2.

You've actually got two clingers.....him and his mom.....keep us updated....

Could this be what's beyond Stage 2?

PurpleBanana, you are going to hurt his feelings, or, feel like shit for not hurting his feelings. Just don't look into his eyes, anymore. That's, probably, how you got yourself into this mess.

Since, you already hurt his feelings, why not drive them into the ground? It makes it so much easier on him. It'd be even worse if his mother has to tell him to leave you alone.

[Nation_1ne]

I'm proud of you, Purple Banana. Actually, I think it's neat he cried. He felt sad, and he's enough in touch with his feelings that he could do that. That's rare.

I'm not so sure about it being rare. Plenty of guys have cried because they have lost someone they love. We aren't heartless sex machines lol.

[Reefer Rogue]

Sometimes, no matter how 'hard' a man is, his emotions can still overwhelm him.

[Skrappie]

Oh yeah, I'm definately doing it in person... We go out for drives once in a while and just talk, I'll drive for about 1/4 hour, then break it to him, discuss, and drop him off.

Done and done.

I really wanted to read the full thread before i said something, but this made me laugh.

its goign to be so missarable to get broken up with during a car ride, then have to save face and tough out clingly little emotions until you home.

you're going to make him cry:hippy:

[greatmuta]

Ah being single is beautiful. I love it. I don't miss the drama and stress of relationships at all. :hippy::rasta::rastasmoke:imp::stoned:

[BUZz UK]

Ah being single is beautiful. I love it. I don't miss the drama and stress of relationships at all. :hippy::rasta::rastasmoke:imp::stoned:

Amen to that!

And i HAVE a girlfriend, haha...

[Purple Banana]

I stopped taking calls from him after the first one. I let him go, and he texted me, but I didn't respond. Thanks for all the support, everyone.

I wonder if he told her yet? She just got online and hasn't IMed me. But I'm ready to stand my ground against her, I did what I felt was right. I felt obligated to like him back when she set us up, and that was my mistake, but now it's over and done with, and I woke up this morning SO much happier.

[IThinkIamFeelingit]

I'm recently singled too PB..Do I have a chance?

[Purple Banana]

Now, with THAT avatar picture, of course you do. As long as Mister Upper-Middle Class Business Man is a pot smoker as well. At first I thought it was Bob Saget...

I saw him live a year or two ago, him and George Carlin are freakin' GODS.