Quote Originally Posted by Billy Preston
Sorry but that makes no sense whatsoever.

Otherwise you'd never learn anything. You aren't born with inate knowledge of everything. The only way you grow is by learning from your mistakes and taking advice.

If you do something wrong and no one tells you its wrong, chances are you'll keep doing it wrong forever and ever amen and what good is that?
But advice isn't always good advice, is it? I'd agree totally that we learn from our own mistakes and others around us, but you must take what I said in context.

It's like telling an angry person calm down, yet just angering them more. If I pin down a guy who's mugging somone and tell him that what's he's doing is wrong, I doubt he's going to listen. If anything, he'll be more inclined to rebel against my advice.

People need to find their own paths, not follow others. If people are messed up due to poor upbringings and such and such then that's not somthing you can repair in one conversation. I can't go around telling everyone who I percive as ignorant that they are wrong and need to be more like me, because what works for me works for me, and not for everyone else I chose to "educate".

There is no way to telling somone they are wrong when I can't comprehend why they think they are right. It's an utterly induvidual perspective that would take the clarity of Gotama to evaluate.