When you lose a bit of weight, you feel sexy, you want to show yourself off. You simply want acknowledgment of your sexiness.

I don't see anything wrong with that, trying to show how hot you are to others, and you see particular challenges of people you want acknowledgment from. But you should remember to do this for yourself, you want to look in the mirror everyday and be damn I'm sexy. You want people to think, you are sexy.

I think your thoughts are only natural, but remember to not cross that line. Look but not touch.

But reb, promise me you'll never turn into one of those extremely buffed up girls. Part of your sexiness is from the softness of your look. Remember that!