I feel like a horrible person...im so bummed

[rebgirl420]

But thast the thing, i dont really want Him per say. I like the idea of it. B/c its risky. But again, id never, ever do it. Hell, I wouldn't even hug him goodbye. I couldn't even really make eye contact with him anyway.

Im perfectly content with John and John only. For the rest of my life. Its just a fantasy I suppose. Nothing more.

[Reefer Rogue]

John's friends probably already think you're hot anyway...

[RhinoGrowUK]

hawkeye al bump ya rep up son

[Hawkeye]

hawkeye al bump ya rep up son

Forgive me for being a newb, but what does that mean?

[snicklefritz1825]

:thumbsup::jointsmile:Your little green bar under your state flag i'll rep you to.

[LIP]

John's friends probably already think you're hot anyway...

Too right - i certainly do!

[angry nomad]

I guess you already have decided, but I want to put my two cents in, because what I am saying is different. Me and my wife have an open relationship. Not sexually, but mentally. She said she doesn't even care if I have a crush on a girl. I was a little shocked. She said, it's perfectly natural and I know you aren't going to cheat on me. We tell each other everything, literally, and I think it's great.

My wife did have a little crush on/(was attracted to) a guy she works with, and she told me about it. I was a little upset, but then I realized it wasn't that big of a deal, because sexual attraction is just animal instinct. And, at least she was being honest with me. I also know she will never cheat on me. I check girls out in front of her all the time, and she doesn't care, because she knows I don't do anything about it. I also tell her when girls at work flirt with me. One time one of my coworkers got drunk and kissed me on the lips, but it wasn't my fault. My wife was a little miffed at her, but forgot about it in a couple days.

So, my point is, I don't think it's a big deal to be attracted to John's friends. I think a lot of people just don't want to be honest and admit they are sometimes attracted to people other than their current lover.

[FreeVenice]

ok your not married to this john cat, and eperiances pass by to fast to act like your 40 with kids. You should seriously discuss this with your man and explain to him that these are thing that will always be part of relationships. You let them get in the way now, it will be alot harder later. i'm sure your in a good relationship but did you really dream about meeting the perfect man and settling down before your even done with 25% of you life?

I'm not saying go crazy, but sometimes cravings can turn to resentment and create tention in situations that could of been resolved without problems.

You only get one day when you 21, the next day your 21 and a day. if you get what I mean.

[WeedyBoyWonder]

But thast the thing, i dont really want Him per say. I like the idea of it. B/c its risky. But again, id never, ever do it. Hell, I wouldn't even hug him goodbye. I couldn't even really make eye contact with him anyway.

Im perfectly content with John and John only. For the rest of my life. Its just a fantasy I suppose. Nothing more.

I know absolutely fuck all about this kind of thing, maybe try some roll play with John, see if that satisfies your need for excitement and thrills.
Good luck

[Hawkeye]

:thumbsup::jointsmile:Your little green bar under your state flag i'll rep you to.

So it is a good thing? Well thanks to both of you. Woo hoo, I got rep! How does one give rep? Do you need to be a mod or something?