hmmm, you answers are appreciated guys but this isn't what I'm looking for. I know how to ask "how are you", "what you been up to?". talk about the news and such, but I find that runs out pretty soon. It's moving past the initial pleasantries that I struggle with.

For example, what do you usually talk about when the conversation is "settled in"?
Gandalf_The_Grey Reviewed by Gandalf_The_Grey on . A question to our more socially adept members I really need some advice here. How on Earth do you make small-talk? I know it sounds like an easy question, but I'm really making an effort to stop being a social introvert and socialize more and it's one hell of an effort. I've spent years avoiding people and keeping to myself, so I don't have much in the way of social skill. When I'm talking to people all I can think to talk about is things like politics, philosophy, biology, quantum theory, world events, the sort of things I usually think Rating: 5