Hey buddy, key words, "I am a pussy." Yours not mine. I was in a long term relationship with an absolute bitch. Four years (18-22). Why did I stay with her? Because I was a pussy. I was a coward, too afraid to be alone, to be without a girlfriend. (The first three years of high school, I only had one girlfriend, and for six weeks. I was very insecure.)

It was very painful to break up with her. I cried for six months, which is when she got married, then I refused to cry, and moved on.

I learned to be independent instead of codependent. I learned how to be confident without being an asshole.

Ugh, that girl was such a selfish bitch, but I didn't realize it at the time.

Once you learn how not to be a pussy, a lot more girls will be attracted to you. Here is some unsolicited advice.

-Stand and sit up straight, and stick your chest out a little. If you have bad posture, you will probably feel like you are thrusting your chest out, but you are probably just sitting up straight.

-Speak from your gut, instead of your nose.

-Get contacts.

-trim your facial hair or shave.

-Pay for a nicer haircut.

-Wear cologne.

-Dress up when you go out.

-Smile and look people in the eye when you talk to them.

If you do this, and she doesn't like it, you will still get more attention from girls.

Be more confident.



-Tell her that you want to fuck her. You love fucking her. She turns you on. If that doesn't work, I would just say dump her. Sex is a big part of a relationship. You aren't married, and you don't have kids. You are young. If the sex sucks, and has been sucking, a lot of guys would've dumped her by now. But, try just being up front, and tell her you want to fuck her. But, if she doesn't give you head... ah just dump her.

Just my opinion