once again i appreciate all the words of wisdom i get on here...yeah my girl is in florida right now, visiting her family. i'm hoping this week apart will help things out a lot. i'm definitely going to sit her down for a serious talk though when she gets back. that is the only solution i can see right now to our problems. if we can't work them out, then we are done. i can't waste any more of my life not being with someone i am truly happy with. its just going to be so hard though if we do break up because we have so much stuff together. we have 2 cats, one dog, a bunch of furniture and appliances. all of that stuff is both of ours. i guess i should just worry about trying to fix our relationship first huh?