I don't have any advice to give. All I can say is, I've been there it sucks. When I was ready to move on, I couldn't get any chicks. And that sucked more. But then I learned how to get chicks. That was cool. Then I met my wife. That was awesome. Anyway, this whole process took 8 or 9 years. But, I did not see my first long term girlfriend very much or talk to her afterward. It helped.