Feeling like shit, gonna vent.

[Not An Addict]

I've been with this girl since we were like 10, and we were always really solid, fully in love. We're 18 now and broke up over the summer. Since then, she doesn't make an effort to talk to me, or even respond to my calls for that matter. Found out tonight shes having sex with some other guy, and I know this is all stupid and retarded for you guys to read, but fuck. I don't know what to do, it feels like I'm insane now. I can't even explain, nor do I want to try. I pretty much expect the response "You're still young, so many people, blah blah", but I don't even want to meet other people. This is so horrible.

Not An Addict Reviewed by Not An Addict on 09-02-2007. Feeling like shit, gonna vent. I've been with this girl since we were like 10, and we were always really solid, fully in love. We're 18 now and broke up over the summer. Since then, she doesn't make an effort to talk to me, or even respond to my calls for that matter. Found out tonight shes having sex with some other guy, and I know this is all stupid and retarded for you guys to read, but fuck. I don't know what to do, it feels like I'm insane now. I can't even explain, nor do I want to try. I pretty much expect the Rating: 5

[crudemood]

I don't know what to say to make it feel better. I've been in a similar situation so what I did was write a letter to this person, make sure you put everything you feel on the letter and then when you're done seal it up and leave it be. It'll help you, I did that and its great! Then when you're done with that, you can try to find things to occupy your mind from these thoughts and slowly each day you'll forget about her and think about her less as each day passes.

[FakeBoobsRule]

8 years, wow that's tough man because that is longer than some marriages these days. It is going to take some time to get over so don't expect the hurt to go away. That guy probably doesn't have crap on you because she was with you for 8 years and he's getting her while she is probably on the rebound. You are more of a man in your pinky than this gabroni if she was with you for half her life. So grieve for the next few months but pick yourself up off the ground and get back in the game and go out with some little hottie as quick as possible. Treat yourself nice over the next few days, maybe buy you some "I'm getting a new girlfriend clothes" or throw a party in your honor or take yourself out for a nice dinner. Take care of number 1. Back off the phone calls for a while. Don't be so up her ass but if there is a chance to talk to her and you are dating someone else, drop that on her and tell her your happy. If you stop calling for a while she might think you found someone else and it might make her jealous. Childish, I know but that is the game we play.

The scars remind us that the past is real.....

[Not An Addict]

Thanks for the responses. And I've tried the writing thing before with other issues and I tend to just focus on my depression without trying to, then I feel really dumb.

[Bogart]

:smokebong::sorry1::sorry1::sorry1::sorry1:

Thanks for the responses. And I've tried the writing thing before with other issues and I tend to just focus on my depression without trying to, then I feel really dumb.

It's OK to go with your depression. It's part of the grief process and it's healthy. 8 years is a long time and your not going to heal over night. Take time for your self and toke a little if it helps. Soak in a hot tub and just toke and relax.

Man you were in a LTR and it's not going to heal overnight. If you need to cry then damn it cry. Stop trying to contact her, because right now all it's going to do is make you feel worse. After a while you will start feeling better and will start noticing that you are feeling better about the situation.

Take this time to reflect and concentrate on yourself and what you have to offer someone in a relationship.

[Not An Addict]

Take this time to reflect and concentrate on yourself and what you have to offer someone in a relationship.

Absolutely nothing..

[ncnavguy]

When I get really depressed I work out, like a fiend and run and run and run, it eases my mind by taking all the nervous energy out of my body. Also I found that having sex with another chick usually marks the end of my depression over the previous on. Sometimes sex w.o. a relationship is a decent segway.

[Not An Addict]

I appreciate the advice but even after we ended our relationship I turned down sex a few times. I really only want her.. sounds retarded, I know.

[dannyboy420]

Time heals all wounds. You will feel better, but it will take awhile.

Good luck.

[Reefer Rogue]

My condoloences. May your heart heal fast.