Feeling like shit, gonna vent.

[NuDimensionz]

Time heals all wounds. You will feel better, but it will take awhile.

Good luck.

Yeah Man, gd advice, you won't believe it but ya just got to give it time!
Personally, I found easier not being in contact, ya know? dont go to the same party's that kind of thing. You'll eventually move on and be friends or move on and not!

Peace :jointsmile:

[angry nomad]

I don't have any advice to give. All I can say is, I've been there it sucks. When I was ready to move on, I couldn't get any chicks. And that sucked more. But then I learned how to get chicks. That was cool. Then I met my wife. That was awesome. Anyway, this whole process took 8 or 9 years. But, I did not see my first long term girlfriend very much or talk to her afterward. It helped.

[Not An Addict]

She was gonna be my wife in a few years :/
fuck.

[Not An Addict]

Anyways, thanks for being cool guys.

[Bluntmasterbabe]

I'm so sorry that you're feelin' down

Writing a letter to her would probably make you feel better, even if you just rip it up when you're done. Just a way to get all of your feelings out. Always helps me. Cheer up. Everything will work out. If it's meant to be...it will happen when the time is right

This blunt is dedicated to you, my friend

[imitator]

Absolutely nothing..

I lost someone who I was about to marry, she died a year before the marriage.

It feels like you have given everything that is you to that woman, and that you have nothing you will ever be able to give to someone else. I remember that feeling very well.

But then I slowly started realizing that she gave herself to me as well. And that changed who I am, and made me a better person. I started seeing that even if there wasnt anything for me to give, I could work on building myself back up to be able to give something to someone again.

She has changed your life forever. Your life is different then it was before you met her, and its for the better. Its allowed you to learn to love, and care, and expanded who you are in ways you may not even see yet. You need to take the time to explore yourself again, find out who you really are now, and go from there. I am willing ot wager that you will find a new but familiar person in there, and thats the start.

Most of all, dont allow yourself to get caught up in regret for what has happened. It is sad, devestating even perhaps, but do not regret it. To regret it would mean that you wish all those wonderful times had never happened, and those memories are to be charished. They hurt like a bitch right now, but over time, they will become things that you look back upon fondly, if not maybe a little sadly. Also, your time with her is going to lead you to new paths you wouldnt be on otherwise. One day, you will find someone who you love deeply, and wish to make your wife, and you will be so happy that you dont even know what to do with it all. And you will have gotten to that point in life because of everything that happened in your past, good and bad.

Its a rough process, and my best advice is to stick around friends, lean on them for moral and emotional support when you need it... if they are true friends, they will already be handing those two things out hand over fist for you, because they care. Dont regret, dont look back upon anything with regret, and take this time to rediscover who you are on the inside. I know I found a completely different person when I took the time to look.

Chin up my man, life is full of ups and downs, and its a testament to a persons strong will that they can pick themselves back up again after getting knocked flat on their asses. Take your time standing back up if you need, but dont ever look away from that goal of getting back up and trying it again.

[angry nomad]

Imitator that was deep. I would just like to add, that now I am 32. I look back on my past relationships fairly. The bad times were bad, and the good times were good. But, now I am more emotionally detached from them. I don't get upset when I think of the bad memories. One day, it will feel like that for you too. I know, it sounds completely insane right now, but I have walked in your shoes not so long ago, my friend.

[thecreator]

I'm kinda going through the same thing with a lady friend or former lady friend but you should fill your time with friends and family. I mean I know it sucks to be ignored but the attempt is enough conversation for this "Girl" and the sooner you stop the sooner she is either going to realize she needs you as a friend or lover. In the mean time don't start looking for shit if you are meant to find love it'll come to you. Good luck and sometimes ppl just need a brake and when they get it they realize what there missing. Oh make sure not to turn into a man whore, ass, slut, or any other negative shit that might result in her not wanting to get back with you. Keep us posted mate and I am truly sorry and love is love regardless of the age.

[Not An Addict]

Its been a little while, but I'm feeling a little better everyday. Spent the night at a girl friend's house and it's not so bad.

[imitator]

Its been a little while, but I'm feeling a little better everyday. Spent the night at a girl friend's house and it's not so bad.

Glad to hear that things are going better for you.

Any specific things that you are seeing differently now, in reference to the things you have said in the previous posts?