Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
i'm worried it may come out wrong, but stop pittying yourself!

dude, i was shy as fuck too.. the only reason i got laid at 15 was because a girl made the first move.. only reason me and my wife ever first kissed was cuz she made the first move... if it hadn't been for them making the first move, i'd of never done anything and be in the same boat as you..

but if it hadn't of been for my wife making the first move i might of never even gotten involved with her, and that'd be like throwing away a winning lottery ticket...

just make the moves dude.. i never did, but i really hate to think of what i may have missed if someone didn't pick up where i lacked.... i really do...

just do it.. (i doubt i'm going ot convince you, but i honestly really hope i do)

what are you missing if you pass up the chance to tell her once and for all? what are you passing up if you just let her go?

there is no right or wrong way, you just do it... stop trying to live up to tv, movies and stories... everyone has their own personality and own stories... that's what makes us choose people while we turn down others, if we did everything the same or based it the same, it wouldn't matter who you got with... we'd just fuck the first thing that isn't already pregnant and raise our young with no emotional attachment...

as cheesy as it sounds, go with nike... "just do it"
Well thanks dude, but believe you me I don't need any convincing! I'm just nervous because I've never done it before, and I'm worried about ruining a really good friendship if she says no. But when it comes right down to it, I couldn't torture myself like this forever having never said anything, I HAVE to tell her and there's no way I'm not going to.


As pathetic as it is, just to have an endless supply of money. What I don't use in my lifetime, I'll give to those I deem worthy, at the time, with a will updated every month.

I'm so completely sick and tired of being poor. Those who say that money can't buy happiness, I believe, are wrong and, probably, just saying that in the hopes that those who do have such wealth aren't any happier than we are. I think that's a lie. With money can come great happiness.

Money.
Man I totally understand you. Me and my family spent a 6 year period where we were so poor it was a big event when we got to go to Tim Hortons and grab a coffee. I am so glad those days are passed. Money doesn't necessarily buy hapiness, but a certain base amount is necessary for it. Poverty limits your options, I really wish you the best in making it out. And you can if you really devote yourself!