Sometimes we just need to leave our *feelings* at the breakfast table. IMHO, the lady just wanted booty call, and you didnt leave your feelings at the breakfast table.
When I was 17, I dated a lady 35, 2 kids, no hubby. She passed me around to her friends like a vibrator with fresh batteries!! Theres love, lust, and lusting lovers, dont involve your *feelings*. She let you know where you stand.