Quote Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR
Slip, not as far as I know, dude.. The way I see it, she's been single for a long time until I came along, and I just think now that she's got the confidence back to start dating, she's met this guy and decided she likes him more than me, so I don't mean anything to her anymore. I really hope that's not the case, but it probably is..

stinkyattic, I know what you're saying. Everyone's been saying to me "it must be cool for you to be with an older woman, but why the fuck is she with a 20 year old?".. Lol, she has some real issues when it comes to guys and dating and stuff. So there could be a million reasons for why she's acted like this, or maybe she's just being honest and she is a bitch?

ganjzilla, good point bro.. To be that scared of commitment that you run away the moment someone refers to you as a 'girlfriend' of someone is fucking lame ass.. I mean the night before we'd been talking about our relationship and stuff and she pretty much referred to herself as my girlfriend! lol

lagstronaut, thanks for the advice bro, but I doubt I'll ever be in that position with her again. Not only has she blown me off in the most heartless fuckin' way possible, but she's acting like she hasn't done anything wrong and can't understand now why I'm angry! So I'd find it really hard to be friends with her or be close to her again! Since this happened I've been going through hell, not just because I'm that hung up on her, but because of the way she fucked me over too. I dunno if I could put myself through that again..

hippy lettuce, Lol thanks! Yeah you're right, the more I think about it the more she seems like a really imature head-case.. I wish I could just go "fuck her!" and not even think about her again, and it's really difficult keeping myself from phoning her again and again.. But I'm sure there's some other reason for her acting like this towards me.. Maybe she is just scared of commitment and she panicked? I dunno..

Thanks for your replies guys! It's cool being able to talk about this with you!
well just watch yourself dude, it still is your decision what to do... and if you don't think what i said is the case then... well simply put.. FUCK OFF! no i'm just kidding, but reading back, actually, considering your new input... ganjzilla does seem to have a very valid/likely point...

just tread lightly, don't let a girl get you down or anything.... just watch out for yourself... with the turn of events that happened, (although i'm almost always against selfishness, and am very giving) right now the most important person in the equasion is you... you gave, and she's seemed to of retracted from giving back, putting you in priority.. there's no sensible reason to give your heart to someone when all they want to do is step on it.
slipknotpsycho Reviewed by slipknotpsycho on . Would like some advice please... Okay guys, I was just wondering if I could get some advice.. I've come to trust the opinions and advice of members here over the last few years, and other than my friends, who can't really help right now, I don't know who to come to.. So, okay.. A few weeks ago I met this woman. We got along really well, knew the same people, liked the same stuff, and really wanted to see eachother again, so we did. There's quite an age gap between me and her, but I'm mature enough to get along with Rating: 5