Quote Originally Posted by ThinkLong
Ok so I really like this girl... she is from another town 20min or so away... we talk a lot on the internet... I have hung out with her a few times... but always with her/my friends So yeah it's weird and I can never really tell if she is interested... her one friend has seemed to hint at it and she gave me her number. But I still just always have doubt.
But here is the deal she is coming to the town where I live by herself... I will find shit to fill all the time with hopefully... but I have no fucking clue how to say... "ask her out" more so just scared and dont want it to be awkward after a "no" and that would just kind of ruin everything and make it weird between us and I dont want that.
It's been a long time since my last relationship if you want to call it that and she asked me out...
But I mean I feel that if her friend has hinted stuff and she gives me her phone number AND is willing to hang out all day/night with me... she has to be somewhat interested, right? She is quite shy too.

Sorry I have no clue what the fuck to do and sorry if this post doesnt make sense... any advice would be appreciated
i always like to point out the obvious so here it is...

the worst is she says no... are you gonna be scared to do anything in you life for fear of rejection (i.e. asking your boss for a raise??)

sorry for the harshness, but grow some balls... ask her out... all she could say is no, but if she's drove 20 mins to meet a stranger that she met on the internet, she's obviously intrested to some extent...

if it makes you feel better ask in a similar fashion:

look i know we don't really know each other that well, and i'm usually not this forward, but i really do like you and i'm intrested in taking this to the next level, i want to know if you are as well....

if not that's cool too, i just had to ask.... or i might beat myself up for letting something so great just pass me up (bonus points for this line)